What Should I Do if My Spouse is Spying on Me?

What Should I Do if My Spouse is Spying on Me?

You may trust your spouse – but does your spouse trust you?

You may have something to hide or you may have nothing to hide, but either way knowing that you’re being spied on feels like a terrible invasion of your privacy. You need the help of an experienced family law attorney to navigate the complexities associated with spousal spying during a divorce or custody case.

Some forms of spying aren’t just offensive – they’re illegal. Information a spouse uncovers about you via illegal spying can’t be used against you directly in a divorce action or custody battle. However, if the illegally obtained information leads to legal sources of information, and your spouse can cover his or her tracks, then your spouse’s spying could end up hurting you in court.

The fact that your spouse is spying on you is also a warning sign that your relationship is in serious trouble.

Why Would My Spouse Spy on Me?

Your spouse might spy on you for any number of reasons.

Most commonly, spouses who spy are looking for evidence of an affair. But spouses may spy for other reasons as well:

If you are cheating or otherwise hiding something, then you may be leaving clues all over the place – a whispered phone conversation, a quick change of computer screens, unexplained expenses, etc. Maybe your spouse has asked you straight out about these things; maybe he or she is afraid to. Maybe your spouse just wants to know the truth – even if it hurts – so he or she can get on with life… maybe without you.

Your Spouse Might Also Be Spying To Get an Advantage in a Divorce or Custody Fight

In Arizona, a spouse is entitled to alimony if he or she is dependent on the other spouse and if the court concludes that awarding alimony would be fair under the circumstances.

One of the factors a court will consider is marital misconduct by either spouse. If a court finds that the supporting spouse committed adultery, then the court must order the supporting spouse to pay alimony to the dependent spouse.

If the supported spouse or both spouses committed adultery, then the court can use its discretion to either award or deny alimony to the supported spouse.

It’s not considered “marital misconduct” if one spouse condoned the adultery of the other. Thus, if one spouse knew that the other was cheating, and forgave or accepted it, then the court would not consider infidelity a factor in awarding alimony.

The same issues apply in the case of post-separation support.

Courts can also take adultery into consideration when making decisions about child custody.

Although an affair will not generally be an issue when it comes to the division of property, if a cheating spouse spent significant marital assets on the affair, then the affair is relevant. For example, did the cheating spouse buy expensive gifts (such as jewelry) for a lover? Did the cheating spouse spend money on hotel rooms or vacations with the lover, or even set him or her up in a “love nest” apartment?

Criminal Conversation and Alienation of Affection

A spouse who suspects an affair may spy in order to uncover evidence that could support the filing of a civil lawsuit for criminal conversation or alienation of affection against the spouse’s paramour.

The lover may be required to pay damages for:

How Can I Tell if I’m Being Spied On?

Your spouse may be spying on you in any or all of a number of ways:

Email and Internet Monitoring

Your spouse may not need any special software or gadgets to check your email. He or she may simply check your computer or smartphone when you’re not using them, if they’re not protected by a password.

Your spouse may also know (or be able to guess) your passwords and get into your email and Internet accounts that way.

Your spouse may also install spyware in your computer or cellphone that will allow him or her to remotely monitor your emails and the websites (including dating sites and chat rooms) you’re visiting.

Keystroke logging (also called keylogging or keyboard capturing) software and hardware can allow your spouse to track every character you enter – including passwords to your personal financial accounts. There are tools (such as this one) you can use to detect whether there’s a keystroke logger installed on your computer.

So how else can you tell if you have spyware on your computer?

An anti-virus program, such as McAfee or Norton, should be able to detect spyware (or prevent it from being installed in the first place). If you don’t have anti-virus protection on your computer, you should get it for a lot of reasons – spying by your spouse is the least of your worries.

Cell Phone Monitoring

Your spouse may be able to install a program like phonesheriff INVESTIGATOR that allows him or her to view your text messages, call history, GPS location, contacts, photos, and other information. This particular program works by intercepting your iCloud backups, so if you change your iCloud password it will stop working.

If your Apple iPhone is “jailbroken,” then it’s especially vulnerable to spyware.

If YOU didn’t jailbreak your phone, then your spouse may have done it in order to install spyware. Here’s a site that will let you find out and restore the phone to the factory settings. Make sure your phone is backed up to iCloud before you reset it!

Landline Monitoring and Other Bugs

Your spouse may have the expertise or resources to bug your home, office, car or (landline) phone. Here are some signs that you might have been bugged:

Being Followed

How can you tell if you’re being followed?

How Should I Respond When I Learn My Spouse is Spying on Me?

You have several options when you discover that your spouse is spying.

One response is to be totally open and totally transparent. Admit to any wrongdoing and seek counseling to repair the damage to your relationship.

If you haven’t done anything wrong (and don’t plan to), offer to share passwords and “friend” each other on all of your social media accounts. Install an app such as GPS Tracker in your smartphone that will let your spouse see where you are at all times.

Another response is to explore why your spouse felt the need to spy on you. Is the problem with your spouse, with you, or with your relationship? You may need couple’s therapy to resolve these issues.

You can also decide to make it much harder for your spouse to spy on you, and hope that he or she quits trying. For example, you can use (and change) passwords on all your devices, use anti-spyware software, and have your home and office swept for bugs.

You may decide that the spying indicates your marriage is irrevocably broken and seek a divorce.

If you feel your spouse should be punished for violating your privacy, and especially if you think that your spouse may be a danger to you or to others, you can seek criminal penalties or civil remedies.

Criminal Penalties for Spying

Some forms of spying are violations of state or federal law.

For example, if your spouse is found guilty of violating the Federal Wire Tapping Act, at a very minimum he or she can be ordered to stop the illegal acts. For example, a court can order him or her to remove spyware from your phone or computer, stop recording your calls, etc.

If your spouse previously violated the Act and continues to do so, he or she can be subject to fines of $500 for each violation.

Your spouse can also face up to five years in prison for violating the Act.

Violation of the Arizona Electronic Surveillance Act is a Class H Felony. Damages to the victim are calculated at the rate of $100 per day, or $1000 total, whichever is greater. Under the state law, you can also recover punitive damages to punish your spouse, and attorney’s fees to pay your lawyer.

Civil Suits for Spying Spouses

Under Arizona law, you can bring a civil action against your spouse (or former spouse) for invasion of privacy by intrusion.

This tort is defined as follows:

One who intentionally intrudes, physically or otherwise, upon the solitude or seclusion of another or his private affairs or concerns, is subject to liability to the other for invasion of his privacy, if the intrusion would be highly offensive to a reasonable person.

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Divorcing from an Abusive Spouse

Divorcing from an Abusive Spouse

Behind closed doors, or hidden beneath a blanket of silence, domestic violence bruises the lives of an estimated four million people every year–the overwhelming majority of them women–and impacts expanding circles of millions more: children, relatives, friends, employers.

Studies show that violence occurs at least once in two-thirds of all marriages, and approximately 95% of the victims of domestic violence are women. Roughly 40% of all physically abused children have also witnessed physical violence between their parents.

Many children who are abused, or who witness abuse of a parent, grow up to become abusive themselves, or become victims in violent relationships, and the cycle continues. Fortunately, there’s something you can do about it. You need the guidance and advice of an experienced Arizona divorce attorney.

According to Lisa Angel–an attorney, Board-Certified Family Law Specialist and member of the Governor’s Domestic Violence Commission–special laws in Arizona are designed to provide quick and effective relief from domestic violence. “The most important thing a victim of this kind of abuse can do,” she emphasizes, “is find the courage to take action.”

Don’t Become a Deadly Statistic

Some people feel as if they just can’t handle dealing with the legal system on top of the abuse they’ve suffered. Regina, for example, found the courage to move with her children–one of whom has also been abused–into a new apartment. At the time, she says, “I didn’t think I could face the trauma of taking a domestic violence case to court.” Her husband’s response? He tracked her down at her new home and hit her again. That was the unfortunate wake-up call she needed to act.

If Your Spouse is Violent, Take Immediate Action

Angel–a past president of the Women’s Center of Wake County Board of Directors and founding board member of Project Together, a domestic violence pro bono project–is particularly clear on this point: “Call the police if necessary. When you’re safe, contact the domestic violence relief agency in your county. They can give you advice and direct you to a safe shelter.”

If You Fear for Your Safety, Leave the House; Otherwise, Talk to a Lawyer First

As Regina found out, violence can be an ongoing threat, wherever you are. Which is why, according to Angel, “I can’t stress this enough: If your spouse is violent, you must take all steps necessary to protect your safety and the safety of your children. Only after you’re safe is it time to focus on legal issues.”

In general, she says, you can leave the house and not come back, and you may take the children with you, unless a court order directs you otherwise. However, she points out that–if circumstances allow–it may not be wise to leave the house without talking to an attorney. “Leaving the house without what a court considers a good reason may affect your alimony situation, and if you leave the house you may not be able to come back until a court divides the property.”

This process will take a long time, and you may not end up with possession of the house after the property has been divided. The best advice? According to Angel: “Stay in the house until after you discuss the matter with a lawyer, unless your spouse is violent. As Regina’s case illustrates, victims of abuse don’t always have the ability to make this choice–sometimes getting out is the only safe option.”

If Warranted, File Criminal Charges

Arizona law should be on your side, says Angel. “If you are attacked, there are several crimes your abuser can be charged with, for starters: Rape and Sexual Offense, Assault, Domestic Criminal Trespass, Communicating Threats, Stalking or Harassing Phone Calls.” Again, she recommends contacting the police as soon as possible.

Use the Civil Courts to Your Advantage

The civil code can also provide some relief. “In many cases,” says Angel, “it’s possible to get a court order without the typical notice requirements, so you can keep possession of the house and car, and temporary custody of your children; the order may also provide that your spouse must stay away from you and the children. And if your spouse violates such an order, he or she will be arrested.”

In the case of Tamiqua, repairing her life included both civil and criminal remedies: a domestic violence consent order, separation agreement, and involvement of the district attorney–after her husband fired a gun at her while their children slept upstairs.

For Angel, this illustrates an important point. “From a legal perspective, it’s not an either/or choice. You should use whatever tools are necessary to protect yourself and your children.”

Prepare a Complete Complaint

A domestic violence complaint should list all the facts, and not simply state the result of the violence. Terri, was able to present a very compelling picture of her situation simply by highlighting her recent interactions with her husband. As she succinctly puts it, “I was willing to negotiate; he got hung up on the money stuff, and then he went nuts again.”

Angel says that the facts you present are most compelling to the court when the acts occurred recently or over a period of time, and when they’re as specific as possible.

Understand the Domestic Violence Act

In 1979, Arizona responded to the problem of domestic violence by enacting Chapter 50B, the Domestic Violence Act. Angel has dealt with the ins and outs of this legislation for many years. “The Act has been amended and refined over the years and, while not perfect, it has a number of good attributes. It protects men, women and children, and it provides a fast method for separating a spouse from his or her abuser.”

Under the Act, domestic violence is defined as attempts to cause or intentionally causing bodily injury, and placing a person in fear of ‘imminent serious bodily injury’ by threatening the use of force. “The statute protects not only present spouses but also former spouses and people in a dating relationship – so you don’t have to be currently married to be protected.” A dating relationship, for these purposes, involves romantic involvement over time and on a continuous basis.

When it Comes to Filing a Complaint, You can “Do it Yourself”

Do-it-yourself complaint forms are available through the Clerk of Superior Court. “However,” Angel cautions, “these forms should not be used if custody, child support or alimony are at issue, because they don’t allow for solid claims to be made in those areas.”

Attorneys can also use these forms, or they can write up custom-tailored complaints. “It’s the kind of thing,” according to Angel, “that might be great in some situations, and in others it might just be confusing. Not everyone wants or needs to handle their own legal paperwork, even in the best of circumstances.”

Pamela was certainly not facing the best of circumstances when she thought about going the do-it-yourself route. “I was tired–physically, emotionally. More like in shock. So even when some very well-meaning friends tried to get me to do this, I just couldn’t. I had been a victim for so long, I really didn’t think I had the strength to do this on my own.” It took a professional who could walk her through the process, and do, in her words, the “heavy lifting,” for Pamela to file a complaint.

Find the Right Solution

This reinforces a central message that Angel wants to get across. “There’s no one right answer for all victims.” And this extends into the courtroom. “Whether you have a restraining order against your abuser or some other type of court order, the Domestic Violence Act allows judges to approve a range of protections.”

These include:

Angel adds that “all of these remedies are in addition to protections that you might be entitled to under other law. Plus, the language in the act is intentionally broad, so other types of protections can also be crafted.”

Know What Protective Orders Can and Can’t Do

Despite this long list of protections, Angel says that there are several issues to keep in mind. “Protective orders will expire at the end of a fixed period, not more than a year. There are no exceptions to this rule, but you can request renewal for up to another year.”

In addition, copies of the order must be issued to each party as well as the police or sheriff’s department in the county where you live – and it’s up to you or your attorney to make sure this gets done. “As much as law enforcement wants or tries to help, some things are beyond their control. The best protective order ever drafted is no good unless there’s some follow-through. We find that victims who try to handle legal things themselves sometimes get to this point and don’t realize there’s more they need to do.”

There is Light at the End of the Tunnel

Remember Regina? When she turned to the legal system, she was initially met by resistance from her ex-husband, who refused to settle custody and visitation out of court or agree to a protective order. This forced a trial, where conflicting testimony was given. The court, however, ultimately found in Regina’s favor – issuing a protective order and granting her custody of the children. “It was hard,” she says. “But not harder than what we had been living through.”

While, as Angel puts it, “it’s not necessarily going to be a pleasant process,” using the courts can be an effective – in some cases the only – tool for ending abusive relationships. And the bigger picture is this: thousands of people have found the strength to save themselves from domestic violence.

Find Someone to Lean on

Speaking from her lengthy professional experience, Angel says that “emotional support can be absolutely essential to everyone involved in the breakup of a violent marriage.” Mental health providers – including psychologists, psychiatrists, clinical social workers and other counselors – can be found in private practice, at nonprofits or in government agencies. Many agencies will provide counseling at a fee based upon your income.

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Should I Hire a Private Investigator to Help with My Divorce Case?

Should I Hire a Private Investigator to Help with My Divorce Case?

When we think about private investigators, most of us imagine something out of a movie: The private investigator sits in his car, chomping a sandwich and smoking a cigar while he tries to catch a cheating spouse and lover in a clandestine embrace. But is this the way it is in real life? Yes and no.

How a Private Investigator Might Help

Private investigators are often hired to assist with family law cases, and they can be very helpful for a variety of reasons. However, more often than not, the evidence they collect is more circumstantial than what you see in the movies. When the case involves extramarital affairs, the couples are usually discreet enough that the film is PG-rated at best. Still, every P.I. has stories of catching people in the act and capturing some very private, revealing moments on film.

The Illusion of Privacy

Most people close the blinds unless they're on an upper floor in a building where they believe they can't be seen from the ground. But what if a private investigator manages to take video from an upper floor in the building across the street? If a house is in a secluded area, the spouse who has hired the private investigator can give the P.I. permission to walk onto the grounds of the house. The illusion that the lovers can't be seen because of the seclusion of the house is just that; an illusion. The investigator can easily record their activity through the windows.

Example One: Video Recording

In one case, a male client knew his wife was having an affair, but the investigator hadn't been able to get any real evidence. So, the P.I. suggested that the client go on a short trip. It wasn't long after the client went out of town that a strange car appeared at the house. The P.I. called the client and asked him to come back to town, after which the client and P.I. entered the house together and retrieved the client's gun.

They could hear the wife and her lover in a downstairs bedroom, but the door was locked. The investigator stood by with the gun visible on his hip and a video camera in his hand while the client removed the door to the room and yanked the bed covers off of his wife and lover. The investigator had rehearsed with the client what to say because it was important that he not threaten his wife's lover in any way. Needless to say, this relationship ended in divorce, and the investigator's film was instrumental in the husband's case.

Example Two: Setting Your Spouse Up to Admit Guilt

In another situation, a male client was able to intercept his wife's emails and learn that she was seeing a man who was arriving in town the next evening. She told her husband that she was going out with the girls, but when the investigator followed her, she ended up at a hotel. He observed her coming out of the hotel with her boyfriend, and while they were gone in the boyfriend's car, the client moved his wife's car from the parking lot. The investigator contacted the police to let them know that even if the car was reported stolen, it wasn't actually stolen. Of course, if the wife reported the car stolen, she would have to admit that she had parked it in a hotel parking lot.

When the wife returned and frantically looked for her car, the client drove up in a van and threw all of her clothes onto the ground. He had gathered them in garbage bags just for this purpose. She was now officially caught and could no longer deny her affairs.

Example Three: Workplace Monitoring

In another case, an employer was related to the spouse of an employee who was suspected of having an affair with a coworker. The employer hired an investigator to place a hidden video camera in the office, which caught the married employee and lover having sex numerous times during the day. So, this couple was not only guilty of avoiding work, but they were committing acts of illicit sexual behavior (which is what we call adultery in Arizona.)

Most of the time, people have affairs with just one person that they've met at work. This is why the first question an investigator usually asks a client is: Where does your spouse work, and who works with your spouse? Investigators say it's much less common (at least in Arizona) for a married person to pick up several lovers in bars or to be caught involved in prostitution. But it certainly isn't unprecedented.

Example Four: Following Someone

In one case, it was discovered that a man had placed a profile on a dating website, stating that he was separated. He began dating women in the area, and the investigator was surprised to find the man out with different women on different evenings. Eventually, the man picked up a woman at a bar and engaged in a sexual act with her in his car in a parking lot. The private investigator was able to shoot video of the couple through the window of the car.

Don't Tell Anyone You're Hiring a PI

Unfortunately, it also isn't uncommon for someone to have an affair with a close friend of the family. For this reason, investigators and attorneys advise their clients not to confide in anyone about their suspicions of infidelity not even their parents, who might inadvertently let it slip to the spouse. Then, the spouse could even hire his or her own investigator to determine if surveillance is taking place. If this were to occur, the spouse would become so careful that it would be nearly impossible to gather any evidence to assist in a subsequent court case.

Who Hires the Private Investigator?

Often, a husband or wife suspects their spouse is cheating and hires a private investigator before consulting an attorney. This is usually a mistake. There are rules about confidentiality and privilege in Arizona, so the information is often better protected if the attorney hires the P.I. on behalf of the client. When the contract is between the attorney and the investigator, any material created in preparation for trial may be protected from discovery by the the opposing party as attorney work product.

For this reason, it is advisable for a client to consult with an Arizona family law attorney first. Family law firms can recommend reputable private investigators that are not only professional but knowledgeable about the laws. They won't gather any evidence illegally which could undermine a divorce case, and they will provide very detailed reports that will help the attorney present a thorough case in court.

What Do You Do with the Information Collected?

In some circumstances, however, evidence collected by a private investigator will not be helpful in a divorce case. An attorney can advise a client if it's worth spending the money on a P.I. before that investment is made. For example, if the couple has only been married for a year, if the client makes too much money to be awarded alimony, or if the parties don't make enough money to pay alimony, it may not be useful to present evidence in court from an investigator. While a client may want to hire a P.I. for emotional reasons, it's important to check with an experienced attorney to find out if it would truly be helpful from a legal perspective.

Of course, it's perfectly acceptable to hire a private investigator and decide not to use the information. The evidence obtained by a P.I. can help someone decide whether or not to remain in a relationship. Even if the possibility of divorce is remote, it's a good idea to be prepared. If the attorney has contracted with the P.I., the client is protected if the matter does end up in divorce court.

Avoid Hiring Friends to Watch Your Spouse

What if someone asks a friend to follow the spouse or place a wiretap on the spouse's telephone? This is a recipe for disaster. First of all, wiretapping is illegal a violation of both federal and state law. There are trespassing and harassment laws as well that the average person might not understand, so a friend could be criminally prosecuted for making an inadvertent mistake. Besides criminal charges, the injured parties could take the friend/amateur investigator to court for monetary damages.

Even if the friend stays within the law, a non-professional is much more likely to tip off the party who is being followed. Once the spouse knows they're being watched, obtaining evidence is next to impossible. This mistake can be costly since private investigators generally charge by the hour. Tipping off the spouse may require considerably more time on the part of the professional investigator, resulting in added cost. One private investigator likens it to getting an estimate on a malfunctioning transmission only to go home and take the transmission apart. When you have to return the transmission to the mechanic in dozens of pieces, the estimate will be higher because it will take the mechanic longer to put the mess back together again.

When Should a Private Investigator Be Hired?

Even if there is nothing more than a suspicion of something amiss in the marriage, consulting with an attorney is a good idea. If the matter ends up in court, the evidence gathered by the P.I. is much more likely to be admissible in the case if it has been gathered with the guidance and direction of an attorney. If the judge disallows the evidence because it wasn't obtained legally or doesn't meet technical requirements, it's a waste of the client's money.

Some people believe they can confront their spouse and find a way to work on the marriage. While this is certainly a possibility, if the cheating party is unwilling to work on the marriage, it's helpful to have the evidence before the confrontation takes place. Then, that evidence will be available for a divorce hearing if it comes to that. It is also important to prove that the affair began before the couple separated. So, most attorneys and investigators advise people to consult an attorney and hire a P.I. as soon as they suspect their spouse is having an affair.

Opportunity and Inclination

Since the majority of cheating couples are discreet, it is rare for someone to be caught in the act, so proof of an affair is usually hard to obtain. For this reason, the court only requires that a spouse provide circumstantial proof of adultery. This requires evidence of opportunity and inclination for adultery to have occurred. In order for the evidence to be helpful in court, the evidence should show both opportunity and inclination.

Opportunity to commit adultery includes finding that the parties have entered a home, hotel room, the back seat of a car, or other such place alone and emerged some time later. This is an opportunity for sexual relations. Of course, the parties could be business associates holding a meeting in a hotel room, or they could be platonic friends sleeping in separate rooms. This is why inclination is equally important.

Inclination evidence shows that the parties wanted to commit adultery. Usually, this evidence includes video of the couple kissing, holding hands, or hugging in a romantic way. Emails, phone calls and credit card receipts for flowers may also prove inclination, and if you put this evidence together with the evidence of opportunity, it might be enough for a judge or jury to find that adultery occurred.

Adultery for Alimony

Arizona, alimony is based primarily on need. The court tries to make sure that both parties are able to manage financially when a separation or divorce occurs. If the spouse seeking alimony is proven to have committed adultery, however, that spouse is no longer entitled to that alimony, unless the other spouse is also committing adultery. If both parties are committing adultery, then the court has the authority to provide alimony.

The termination of alimony payments generally happens after a term of years. Also, alimony usually ends upon cohabitation of the party receiving the alimony, which means that the person is living with a new romantic partner. While cohabitation is clearly defined in the statutes, it is not always clear whether someone is cohabitating. Investigators are often called upon to determine whether someone has moved in with the party receiving alimony.

In one particular case, a woman owned four beach houses and was living in one while renting out the others. A private investigator hired by her husband rented out the house next door and obtained videotape of the wife's boyfriend at her residence during all hours of the day and night. While this could still be considered circumstantial, the investigator was able to obtain videotape of the boyfriend's daughter taking the school bus from the house in the mornings. The school requires an official address in its registry, so this was substantial proof that the wife was cohabitating with the boyfriend. The investigator also found the given address of the boyfriend only to take film of furniture stacked up inside, obviously showing that no one was living there.

As a result of this evidence, the husband was relieved of his alimony obligation, which he had been paying for ten years in the amount of $5,000 per month.

Investigations in Child Custody Issues

Private investigators are often called upon when child custody matters are involved with a family law case. For example, a mother suspected that her husband was drinking and driving with the children in the car. An investigator was hired to follow the father, where he was found in a bar. The investigator was able to observe the father and count the number of drinks he had before he picked up the children at school. This proved to the mother that her husband was putting their children in danger, and as a result, she was able to present the evidence in court and protect her kids.

So, private investigators do more than simply follow spouses who might be having affairs. Perhaps a parent is traveling with the children in a car without putting them in their car seats. If that parent denies it, an investigator can videotape and prove the reckless behavior. The evidence can then be used to grant custody to the other parent.

In a court order regarding custody, one spouse may have been granted the right of first refusal. This means that if one parent has the children and cannot care for them on a particular day, that parent is obligated to give the other parent the first opportunity to care for the children. An investigator can conduct surveillance to find out if parents are complying with the court order. It may be found that a parent is leaving the children with a 17-year-old sibling rather than calling the other parent.

Of course, a parent's dating behavior also comes into play when custody is at issue. This often takes place after the divorce proceedings are complete, so it isn't about adultery. It's about the welfare of the children. When a parent's dating relationship impacts the children, it is fair game in a child custody hearing. If a parent's new boyfriend or girlfriend is a convicted sex offender, has a background of criminal drug charges, or is proven to be an alcoholic or recreational drug user, for example, this information can be used to argue against custody for that parent. If one parent has heard rumors about the other parent's boyfriend or girlfriend, a private investigator can be instrumental in determining the legitimacy of those rumors.

Illegal Investigations

There is a famous case of a P.I. in Los Angeles, Anthony Pellicano, who was convicted of a host of illegal activities, such as wiretapping, computer fraud, and identity theft. In court, he testified that his job was "problem-solving" through the acquisition of information. In other words, he was willing to use any means to obtain the information his clients wanted.

While most private investigators are professional and obey the law, some are willing to obtain information illegally. Some clients are so desperate to get evidence against a spouse that they're willing to go to any lengths for it. This is, of course, a mistake. Evidence that has been shown to be obtained illegally will no doubt be thrown out of court. It will do nothing to assist a divorce case and can actually seriously undermine a client's case.

So, what is legal, and what is illegal? As was previously mentioned, wiretapping is illegal. An investigator can videotape anything that can be seen publicly, but the audio capability of the video camera should be turned off in many settings because the sound may not be admissible in court. This means that the P.I. can videotape such things as a couple holding hands in public, kissing goodbye before getting into a car, and even making love if there are no curtains covering a window, but the P.I. generally cannot audiotape the couple's conversations.

A video camera can, sometimes, be hidden in a residence to record the activities of those occupying the home. The legal issues raised by hiding cameras are especially complex. A person should never take this action without specific advice and guidance from an attorney. Hiding cameras and audio recording devices may result in criminal liability in certain circumstances. It is always advisable to employ a professional to assist with the consideration of these activities. Spouses have, on many occasions, hidden cameras and microphones in their own homes to catch a spouse committing adultery. These attempts to obtain proof are sometimes successful but are fraught with risk and should be carefully considered.

There are also numerous considerations that come into play with regard to recording activities in vehicles. Many clients seek to place a GPS tracking device in their spouse's car or a company car. Again, this requires careful consideration in order to manage civil and criminal liability. Nevertheless, the GPS device has become a very productive and cost effective method of conducting surveillance and is employed in many cases.

Computers also present a multitude of issues for the unwary. Private investigators are often trained in forensic evaluation of computer disks and are able to obtain helpful financial records, web browsing records, photographic evidence and sometimes, pornography. The legality of accessing a computer is complex and depends on factors such as ownership of the machine, as well as the expectations of use of the machine by the parties.

Investigators are sometimes called upon by the spouse who has been followed to check for eavesdropping devices, GPS devices, and hidden cameras. Some P.I.'s have countermeasures training, which allows them to check for such equipment, and others specialize in hacking to find hidden computer files and emails. Scans can be run on computers to determine if someone has added spyware to it in order to follow another's computer activity. In one case, a married woman was having an affair, and her boyfriend put spyware on her computer. She hired an investigator who found the spyware and testified in a civil court proceeding that the woman brought against the boyfriend because he had no legal right to put the spyware on her computer.

The Bottom Line

An investigator may be helpful during several stages of a family law case before separation to determine if adultery has taken place, after a separation agreement is in place to make sure no breach of the agreement has occurred, or even after a divorce is final and child custody or alimony issues are involved. In the latter case, the investigator may acquire evidence that gives the client grounds to ask the court to modify a prior order. This may be important if the welfare of children is involved or if a spouse is unjustly receiving alimony.

It is necessary to be 100% honest with a family law attorney and a private investigator. Neither of them can do their jobs unless they know everything about the situation. In fact, some investigators will terminate their relationship with a client and refuse to refund fees if the client has lied to the investigator.

Private investigators are often an integral part of a family law case, and they can assist in numerous ways to strengthen a court proceeding and help the parties find out the truth. They provide both a legal and emotional service to people in the throes of a very painful situation.

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Can Text Messages Be Used in Court?

Can Text Messages Be Used in Court?

Text messages are increasingly being used as evidence in family courts in child custody, divorce, and other legal issues. Due to the growing use of messaging as a main mode of communication, it has become acceptable in these courts under specific circumstances. This implies that you should always exercise caution while texting your ex-spouse, spouse, or the child's other parent to avoid saying anything that may be used against you in court.
A text message sent in a moment of extreme emotion may be used to demonstrate to a divorce lawyer that you are not abiding by a custody or visitation order, that you have tormented the other partner, or that you have been unfaithful to your spouse. Additionally, it may disclose other relevant facts that may affect a family law or divorce matter. A sensitive text message may result in contempt of court, a restraining order, or some other unintended consequence.

Is Text Message Evidence Acceptable in Court?

One might claim that using text messages violates one's privacy. This has not, however, slowed the increasing usage of text messages as court evidence. Texts will probably be utilized as evidence if they can be shown to have a legitimate effect on a family law issue. Typically, text conversations between you and the other person are deemed acceptable. It must be shown in court that the mobile numbers used to receive or send the messages were yours or the other party's. This is usually very simple to do.

However, text messages sent to you by others may be excluded because they come within the category of "hearsay." Additionally, certain texts may be excluded. For instance, messages relating to adultery may be irrelevant in no-fault divorces in which marital misbehavior is not taken into account.
In certain instances, fraudulent text messages may be produced and utilized to fabricate evidence by others. That is why text messages need some kind of authentication. If you think you have been the victim of fraudulent messages sent through fraudulent social media, you should contact an attorney immediately.

Are Text Messages Subpoenaed as Evidence in a Divorce Case?

If you are the receiver of the text messages, you may print the whole thread and present it as proof; but, how can you obtain text message transcripts if they have been deleted or transferred to another receiver? Subpoenaing mobile phone records may be required in such situations.
However, since the information of text messages is typically retained by the mobile owner for just two to three days, it is critical to act promptly. Consult your divorce attorney instantly to learn how to demand phone records.

How to Print Text Messages for a Court Case?

After obtaining the text messages you wish to present as proof, you and your attorney must file and print out the necessary conversations for your case. Seek advice from your attorney for assistance in organizing the messages. These messages should at least have the date and time they were sent, as well as the contact details for the other partner in the conversation thread.
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Everything Parents Should Consider Before Divorcing in Arizona

Everything Parents Should Consider Before Divorcing in Arizona

As a parent, ending your marriage can be challenging, especially when kids are involved. While divorces almost have the same reasons worldwide, different states have different laws and considerations. However, when you've entirely decided to end your marriage, a qualified divorce lawyer, family law attorney will help you maneuver through seamlessly, especially when dealing with a non-filing spouse stubborn about accepting the divorce. Likewise, some of the critical factors to consider include:

Cost

Your divorce can be one of the most expensive encounters in your marriage life. Divorce comes with significant demands for money, such as legal upfront charges and other court fees you may not have anticipated or planned for. Although the number of legal charges depends on your lawyer's or legal firm's divorce fee structuring, you may want to reconsider before deciding whether pursuing the divorce is worth it or not.
In addition to upfront charges, you'll also need to plan for filing fees for petitions and response charges. Moreover, moving and settling expenses can also be expensive if you're the spouse moving out of your marital home. Besides, your divorce costs can also become overwhelming when the court rules for you to pay insurance coverage for assets you may no longer have access to or use.

Getting Back to Work

If you're among the stay-at-home parents, your divorce means you'll have to start thinking about finding a job, mainly when your financial abilities are in question or you're to face child support responsibilities. In addition, according to a study by the Journal of Men's Health concerning both genders' effects of divorces, you're likely to suffer from depression and frequent illness resulting in substance abuse unless you quickly get yourself into work shortly after you're divorced.

Even so, while reentering the workforce seems like an excellent option, your chances of getting the right job for you are petite, especially if you've been married for a long or your job specialty is significantly affected by changes. As such, getting back into track finding the right job for you require the implementation of factors like:

Future Relationship With Your Kids

Before signing your divorce papers, consider how your children will relate with you, especially if you're the filling spouse. In most cases, kids have bad relationships with parents they believe initiated divorces, so before settling for it, your concerns should be about how your children relate to it. Moreover, even when you're not the initiating spouse, be sure children will constantly be upended about it, so don't fully expect things to go easy with them, primarily based on gender.

According to a few studies about the effects of divorces on children based on gender, one study by Neighbors & Wierson in 1991 says boys and girls have different vulnerabilities on their parental divorces. The study reports that boys exhibit more external issues and less competence than girls when divorces occur during their pre-adolescence ages. Additionally, the study also reports that girls exhibit severe psychosomatic problems than boys.

Likewise, a study by Frost & Pakiz in 1990 expressed divorce effects on children stating that girls are more likely to suffer dissatisfaction than boys, especially for their social community exposure. These effects make your children assume you're the reason behind their suffering, which will, unfortunately, change their initial relationship bond with you.

Your Family’s Health Status

According to a 2013 study, divorced mothers are often less affectionate and supportive and suffer accompanying divorce stressors affecting their mental health. Likewise, children growing up with a mentally disturbed mother suffer psychologically, affecting their self-esteem, adversely impacting their academic performances.

Additionally, reports from a leading marriage restoration and caregiver professional, Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin, say that children growing up with separate parents suffer from extreme inabilities to creating impactful social relationships, develop their inner abilities and live to assume they are less capable of dealing with personal and family issues thus risk indulging in drug abuse affecting their mental health as well. Moreover, kids suffer mentally when they frequently change schools, homes, and living with one parent at a time. Finally, for parents, you're likely to suffer mental breakdowns due to financial stressors, especially under child support.

Your Children's Struggles in Accepting Step-Parents

According to the Pew Research center, almost 40% of families in the United States in 2013 alone were a mixture of step-children. The study also suggests that your children suffer from divorce stressors once you are divorced and find it challenging to transform and accept strangers as step-parents. As such, your children will continuously endure family change dynamics, affecting their ability to create bonds with step-parents and society. Also, forcing your child to accept and address your new partner as a parent can be challenging, thus creating enmity between the partner and kids or vice versa.

Criticism

While divorce may be the best decision for your life, random relatives and friends may not be as enthusiastic about it as you’d anticipate. Also, if you're a religious person, some religions may condemn your decision, affecting your social relationships and confidence. Likewise, your cultural beliefs may work against you, especially if you come from cultures that believe divorces are taboos.

Conclusion

When you're torn between signing for divorce, think about things like your children, your family's health, and the financial burdens divorce bring. Moreover, to determine if divorce is the right decision based on your marriage circumstances, legal counsel from renowned divorce and family legal firms such as https://familylawattorneymesaaz.net/ can help you make the right choice.

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What Are the Effects of Pregnancy on Your Divorce?

What Are the Effects of Pregnancy on Your Divorce?

While filing for divorce can be your only option, especially in an abusive marriage, factors affecting the process like pregnancy are worth considering. Pregnancy affects divorce in many ways, such as waiting until the baby is born, establishing waiting periods, and settling paternity. However, to successfully handle divorce while pregnant, legal counsel from a qualified divorce lawyer, family law attorney will make things easy for you.

Effects of Pregnancy on Divorce

According to the American Pregnancy Association, expectant mothers are torn between writing off and progressing with their divorces. However, unless your decision is genuinely based on fault issues such as abuse, infidelity, and more, you may want to consider effects such as:

Inability to Establish Child Custody and Support Orders Until the Baby is Born

Ending your marriage may seem like the best decision for you and your unborn child considering safety and other challenges in an abusive marriage; however, unless the child is born while the divorce is in progress, finalizing the matter will have to wait until the baby is born.
Waiting until the child is born allows the law to seamlessly address problems surrounding your marriage, such as giving the baby sufficient child support and determining paternity. Additionally, waiting is a rule considering most states don't allow the creation of custody and support orders on fetuses.

Effects of Pregnancy on Divorce Paternity Resolutions

If you're pregnant and your baby is born ten months following your divorce progress, the man you're divorcing is assumed the baby's biological father. However, if you're the assumed biological father and want to avoid taking responsibility for the child, you can sign a waiver of paternity.
Conversely, when your pregnancy results from an affair your husband knows, the biological father will sign an acknowledgment of paternity while the divorcing spouse signs a waiver. Likewise, the child's biological father can work with child services to establish paternity in case waivers, and acknowledgment paternity procedures are complicated. Additionally, regardless of the pregnancy and divorce status, you as the male divorcing spouse can seek disestablishment of paternity by:

Suppose paternity is established by an Affidavit, Declaration, or by default during court child support establishment. In that case, you can overcome the child's paternity as the biological father by taking the matter to court. During the hearing, a paternity disestablishment action will be created to disestablish your support and custody orders of the child. Likewise, if your wife gives birth and you're not the biological father, an action against paternity will also be established.

However, nullifying your responsibilities against the child is only ruled when the mother signs the paternity disestablishment petition. Additionally, you will win the petition when the court rules the paternity establishment at first was due to fraud, mistakes of fact, and coercion. Moreover, as the male divorcing partner filing for a paternity disestablishment petition due to pregnancy during a divorce, be sure to note the following:

If you win the petition, your parental rights will be terminated, and you'll be relieved from future support and custody responsibilities. Secondly, whether the petition wins or not, you'll be responsible for all the costs incurred. Lastly, unless the court orders, your visitation and custody obligations may not be affected; thus, the mother may still be eligible to leave the child in your hands.

How to Successfully Handle a Divorce While Pregnant

If your decision about ending your marriage is final despite being pregnant, a qualified divorce attorney will help you maneuver effortlessly. However, when you're divorcing due to irreconcilable problems, abandonment, and abuse, handling the process can be overwhelming unless you implement strategies like:

According to the American Pregnancy Association, you will likely suffer from prenatal depression when divorced while pregnant hence essential to seek pregnancy counseling before and after the divorce. However, even without the divorce stressors, pregnancy is full of emotional changes and mood swings that can adversely affect your health and the unborn baby. Moreover, emotional support is paramount when you're in your third trimester, where most pregnant women experience hormonal changes.

Unless your previous marriage was faced with domestic violence and abuse, you wouldn't want your children associating with; co-parenting will help them build and retain good relationships with both parents and more. Plan with your Ex on creating a co-parenting strategy for the benefit of your children in areas like helping kids feel secure.

According to psychology, your children's sense of security increases when both parents actively participate in their lives. In addition, when kids are confident both parents are responsible for them, they easily and quickly adjust to life circumstances without hassles. They also develop an excellent sense of self-esteem and problem–solving abilities which support their mental wellness and decision making.

Whether you're the mother or father, divorce will probably result in financial responsibilities you may not have anticipated. When support and custody orders are given, you'll want to avoid disregarding the law by paying your bills when due. As such, be sure to create a financial strategy starting with basics to secondary needs. Changing beneficiaries, opening new accounts, and dissolving joint accounts are the first few financial steps to take.
Aside from dissolving accounts and more, creating an income safety net will also help you plan your finances well. An income safety net plan will also save you from lacking helping hands when you run out of money during emergencies, something you previously would have depended on your spouse. Additionally, an income net plan comes with disability insurance which offers you an opportunity to earn monthly if you're sick or jobless in the future.

Conclusion

As you can imagine, pregnancy affects your divorce in many ways. However, when it's the best decision for you and your children, the best thing to do is get help from qualified divorce attorneys from renowned legal family firms like https://familylawattorneymesaaz.net/ for comprehensive legal counsel before kick-starting the process will help you handle your divorce peacefully. Likewise, planning your finances, creating a co-parenting plan, and attending emotional support counseling will help you manage the divorce stressors that might adversely affect your unborn child.

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Chandler, AZ – Office

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Gilbert, AZ – Office

Located in South East Gilbert, Near Higley High School on Pecos Road, West of Power Road in the Power Ranch Neighborhood. Our Gilbert Law Firm offers Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

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Gilbert, AZ 85295
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Florence, AZ – Office

Located in the Community of Anthem in Florence Arizona, off of Hunt Hwy. Our Florence Law Firm is staffed with family law attorneys that offer Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

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Parenting in Times of The Pandemic

Parenting in Times of The Pandemic

If you are stuck midway in your divorce case due to the COVID-19 pandemic, like in an informal arrangement or seeking reformed custody for your kids, your divorce lawyer in Mesa could assist you in co-parenting through this period. This would be the perfect time for parents to leave their differences and co-work to keep their kids safe and healthy.

Stay Updated and Teach Hygiene To Your Kids

You should regularly follow the news and guidelines issued by the government and community, and adhere to those which are applicable for you. This applies equally to both the parents. Both of you should practice discussing updates with regard to work notices, school closure or re-opening orders, testing slots, and vaccination availability. Teach your kids to maintain hygiene at all times through regular hand wash, use of masks, and social distancing. Help them learn the importance of these practices through fun reads in children’s books.

Stick to Your Parenting Plan and Grandparent Visitation

The pandemic should not deter any of you from providing parenting time to your kids. Both parents should continue with their existing parenting orders unless the same is modified or need change through mutual agreements. Thoughtful rearrangements need to be made between parents if there seems a possibility of coronavirus exposure. Both parents should ensure the place for each parenting meet is least crowded, avoiding any risk of virus transmission. Orders for grandparent visitations may be obliged through virtual meetings or calls for safety. Older grandparents may need modified temporary visitation orders owing to their ill-health.

Talk To Your Kids

During these tough times, you need to continue positive communication with your kids and attend to their concerns with care. Always be there to support them emotionally. Be reassuring in your conversations that there are better things beyond the sickness issues during the pandemic, and that all responsible adults are doing whatever necessary to protect them. Concerning adult discussions should always avoid the eyes and ears of your kids. This might make them more anxious.

Avoid Parental Conflicts

Always keep in mind that parental separation makes kids go through a lot of emotional trauma. This is why you were taught in your Parent Information Course to avoid conflicts in their presence. Frustration build-ups are natural during these pandemic situations. This could lead to parental conflicts or extended litigations. But a bit of care from both parents in this regard could positively impact your kids’ mental and physical being.

Stay Open to Counselling

You should be open to going through counseling sessions as parents during this time. Being responsible adults as parents, your coping skills and patience may get tested during the pandemic. Consultation with a mental health professional should help in such situations. Such professionals can also mediate conflict issues between both the parents, and help find solutions. In short, you should do whatever necessary on your part to keep your kids healthy and positive over this tough period. For more suggestions, please visit https://familylawattorneymesaaz.net/

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Gilbert, AZ – Office

Located in South East Gilbert, Near Higley High School on Pecos Road, West of Power Road in the Power Ranch Neighborhood. Our Gilbert Law Firm offers Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

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Gilbert, AZ 85295
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Florence, AZ – Office

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Child Support After Divorce

Child Support After Divorce

Child support should continue even after a divorce. Child support is a fundamental aspect of the well-being of the child. It is merely not a practice of just giving economic assistance. It also involves parents meeting the ethical obligations and moral support for their child. Both parents should complete a child's psychological, physical, and emotional needs. Child support is one of the most crucial concerns when you’re filing for a divorce, and you should, in such cases, take advice from a divorce attorney.

What Determines Child Support Payments?

There are guidelines used to help calculate and determine child support. When both parents share custody, it becomes somewhat challenging to grant permission, especially if both parents share 40% of the time with the child.

You Are Getting A Divorce. What Next?

Divorce is also known as "dissolution of marriage." Indeed, divorce is a painful process. Divorce is the point where a marriage ends. In court, it is the process that ends the marriage legally. Your next step is to get lawyers to take you through the process. In some instances, one of the spouses pays spousal support. Also, the court may decide on issues such as child support and custody, including parenting if there is a child. A court has the authority to divide the property and certain debts among the spouses. If you are preparing to file a divorce, you can retain the services of lawyers. Not only will the lawyers work tirelessly to ease the burden. But they will also help you navigate the complex situation by representing you in court and advising you. Some of the ground for divorce include:

What are the Child Custody Determining Factors?

When a marriage has ended, the court may have determined the custody of the children, which becomes very emotional as it means separation of the child from one of the parents. There has to be an agreement on raising the children, one of the parents getting the visitation rights while the other parent gets to be a primary caregiver. A child custody court makes its decision based on the best interest of the child. Most times, the preference is for the parents to agree with the situation. However, in most cases, it does not happen, so when both parents cannot approve, the court decides on critical factors such as:

Lawyers can help with the custody cases and take you through the custody process, including advising you on the types of custody.

What Are The Grounds For You In Getting Full Custody?

Divorce is a painful experience for both the child and the parents. During the child custody process, the court seeks to input the child's interest in which parent should take full custody. A child's custody lawyer can advise you. Because the courts determine who gets the child's full custody, such as seeking full custody, you should fully provide for the child. You should also prove that their option is not favorable for the child or rather they do not have the best interest at hand for the child.

Can You Update Court Orders To Reflect Current Circumstances?

Sometimes you may believe that there is a need to modify the family court order with the help of experienced family lawyers. They have a trusted legal team and can assist you in the modification process, as it is not an easy process. There are various arrays of factors that the judges analyze before deciding on the modifications that are for the child's best interest. The guidelines:

Will My Income Affect The Child Modification

In the original order, income is one of the crucial factors used in determining the child's support; requesting modification plays a significant part. The change in revenue has to be substantial for you to request an increase or decrease in the support. Suppose it happens that you lose your job and there is a significant 15% reduction in pay. In that case, you can seek the child modification order. Also, if you start earning a considerable amount, you can as well seek an increased modification.

I Cannot Make A Payment. Can I Still Get Permanent Child Support Custody?

The child custody order that exists currently remains in charge. However, some circumstances may arise that would make it difficult to pay. Still, you have to try your best to make the payments. Ensure that you do not accrue child support payments. Paying on time makes your reputation better in court. However, the permanent modification of the child remains until the child no longer needs support. You can seek permanent child support custody based on:

Suppose you are at a point where you are experiencing difficulties paying the child support ordered by the court. Do not make any further delays in trying to modify the order. Talk with the other parent in seeking the modification. If you reach an agreement, have it written on paper.

Get in Touch With an Experienced Attorney

You don’t have to play cool if you suspect that your kid is a victim of parental alienation. You should reach out to an attorney that specializes in such cases. You don’t have to break the bank in order to afford such a service. To learn more, visit https://familylawattorneymesaaz.net/

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2915 E Baseline Rd Suite 115
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Chandler, AZ – Office

Located On Dobson Road, just North of W. Chandler Blvd, near the 101 Freeway. We have a team of the Best Divorce Lawyers and Family Law Attorneys in Chandler Arizona. Our Chandler Law Firm offers Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

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Chandler, AZ 85224
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Gilbert, AZ – Office

Located in South East Gilbert, Near Higley High School on Pecos Road, West of Power Road in the Power Ranch Neighborhood. Our Gilbert Law Firm offers Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

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Gilbert, AZ 85295
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Florence, AZ – Office

Located in the Community of Anthem in Florence Arizona, off of Hunt Hwy. Our Florence Law Firm is staffed with family law attorneys that offer Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

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A Guide Towards A Successful Divorce In Arizona

A Guide Towards A Successful Divorce In Arizona

Divorce is far from rare in Arizona in recent years and has increased since the COVID-19
pandemic in 2020. According to a survey by the American Community Survey, Arizona holds the
USA’s highest divorce rates. Experts attribute this to the state’s higher marriage rates. Despite
being rampant, divorce is usually stressful and gets even worse when kids are involved in a
divorce case. It is a difficult time for many, and to ease the process, you should consider
consulting with a divorce lawyer in Mesa for legal advice during these days.

What You Need To Know About Divorce In Arizona

If you’re thinking about filing for divorce, you need to learn all the basics, including:

You must understand the Arizona state divorce laws before considering the process. If you're a
first-timer, you're likely to have a depressing time dealing with the complexities of a divorce
case and should therefore consider hiring a divorce attorney in Arizona.

What You Need To File For A Divorce In Arizona

1. Residency Requirements

The Arizona divorce laws require that you or your spouse be an Arizona resident for a minimum
of 90 days to file for a divorce in Arizona.

2. Conciliation Services Compliance

Arizona Conciliation Statute gives both parties in a divorce a chance to access free marital
counseling to try to save their marriage within the first sixty days after serving a divorce
petition. Before a judge issues a divorce decree, you must use the conciliation services or state
that the benefits won’t save your marriage.

3. Bifurcated Divorce Is A No To The Court

A bifurcated divorce involves separation in two parts; marital status and other separation
issues. This means that the court will first terminate the marriage and other problems such as
child custody and asset division later. In Arizona, a court is forbidden to enter a divorce decree
unaccompanied by community assets and debts division and entering child custody and support
orders. Simply, divorcing parties without solving these issues is not permitted in Arizona.

4. Divorce documents And Fees

Once you’re sure about filing for a divorce, it is required that you submit the required divorce
papers with the court’s clerk. These documents include:

Additionally, you must pay a $349 filing fee to the clerk of the court, for which you can apply for
a waiver if it’s too high to afford.

5. Divorce Papers Service

After filing the divorce papers with the court, you must serve the documents to your spouse.
Most individuals hire a process server to deliver the divorce documents to their spouses.
However, you can also use police officers or the sheriff's office for the service. It is also essential
to understand that you can't hand the divorce papers you filed with the court to your spouse. If
you cannot locate them, service by mail is permitted.

How To Ensure A Successful Divorce In Arizona?

When your marriage has hit rock bottom and is beyond repair, you can choose to embrace an
alternative future through a divorce. However, divorce can be a cumbersome process that
requires skills to survive. Below are a couple of tips to make the process less exacting and
traumatic.

1. Focus More On Your Needs Than Wants

The greatest mistake that will complicate the divorce process is wanting it all. Everyone wants
everything, which is close to impossible. Instead of focusing on the blame game instead, you
should assess what you need to leave room for your spouse's needs to run independent
lifestyles better. In short, think about what you need in a divorce rather than your desires to
save time and ease the process.

2. Keep The Welfare Of The Children In Mind

Most children fall victims to nasty divorces. When considering divorce, you should understand
that the choice will be a new and challenging experience for your kids, and you should not
make it harder for them by prioritizing their needs. Children are more observant than we think,
making it difficult to protect them from the painful prolonged legal separation process. To
prioritize your children's well-being, inform them of only what they need to know, don't give
them a choice between you and your spouse, and consider putting an effective co-parenting
plan despite the conflicts between you and your partner.

3. Stay Calm And In Your Integrity

Anger a self-destructive button you need to stay away from during the divorce process. No
matter how betrayed you may feel or how much your spouse may be provoking you, don’t let
them get the best of you. Resist the urge to vent to any person about the details of your divorce
case or badmouth your spouse. It will benefit you both physically and mentally to make
conscious decisions about taking care of yourself rather than having nasty battles with your
spouse.

4. Manage Your Expectations

Most people walk into a divorce with preconceived notions of what they need to achieve based
on emotions. It would help if you discovered what you intend to accomplish by practical
considerations. A lawyer can help you understand the realities so that you can work towards
reasonable goals.

5. Focus On The Future

Having clarity on your future goals will help you analyze the best course of action during the
divorce process. For instance, before fighting to retain your house, you need to ask yourself
whether you can afford the mortgage payments and keep it.

Following the above tips, you will encounter a less stressful legal separation process. However,
you'll require the help of a knowledgeable lawyer for the daunting process. For use with divorce
in Arizona, you can hire Genesis Family Law and Divorce Lawyers's services or visit their official website for more
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2915 E Baseline Rd Suite 115
Gilbert, AZ 85234
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Chandler, AZ – Office

Located On Dobson Road, just North of W. Chandler Blvd, near the 101 Freeway. We have a team of the Best Divorce Lawyers and Family Law Attorneys in Chandler Arizona. Our Chandler Law Firm offers Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

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333 N. Dobson Rd #5
Chandler, AZ 85224
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Gilbert, AZ – Office

Located in South East Gilbert, Near Higley High School on Pecos Road, West of Power Road in the Power Ranch Neighborhood. Our Gilbert Law Firm offers Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

Genesis Family Law and Divorce Lawyers in Gilbert AZ
4365 E. Pecos Rd Suite 138
Gilbert, AZ 85295
(480) 900-2302
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Florence, AZ – Office

Located in the Community of Anthem in Florence Arizona, off of Hunt Hwy. Our Florence Law Firm is staffed with family law attorneys that offer Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

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Florence, AZ 85132
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How Do I Get A Divorce From A Narcissistic Spouse In Arizona

How Do I Get A Divorce From A Narcissistic Spouse In Arizona

Statistics indicate that a larger percentage of men have a narcissistic personality disorder.
However, women can also be narcissists. Marrying a narcissistic spouse is a wrong choice, but
what's worse is getting a divorce from them. It is a guarantee that your wife will make the
divorce process a traumatizing experience for you. Therefore, you need tips to help you make
the divorce process smoother. If you've had enough of your narcissistic spouse in Arizona, you can
get an experienced divorce attorney in Arizona to ease the process.

How To Recognize A Narcissist

The easiest way to know a narcissist is to diagnose the disorder with a licensed professional. This
is, however, not common since most narcissists go their entire lives without knowing they
suffer from the condition. Therefore, you need to watch out for specific traits such as:

There is no doubt that the above symptoms lead to a nasty divorce. However, the condition
manifests differently in females and males; therefore, you will not see the same signs in a
narcissistic husband.

Why Do I Need A Divorce Attorney?

Divorce is usually a vast battle and having a spouse with narcissistic personality disorder makes
it even worse. Hiring the services of an experienced Arizona divorce attorney is the only way to ensure
the best possible outcome, especially when divorcing a narcissistic spouse since they can be
overdramatic and manipulative. It's therefore advisable not to communicate with them during the
divorce process unless through an attorney.

How To Handle A Narcissistic Spouse During A Divorce

Things To Look Out For When Divorcing A Narcissistic Spouse

To reduce the hassle that comes with divorcing a narcissist, you need to have enough
knowledge to deal with the situation efficiently. Here are a few tips for divorcing a narcissistic
wife:

If you're ready to get a divorce from a narcissistic wife, it's time you contacted the best
attorney. You can contact Genesis Legal Group for any assistance or visit this URL to learn more:
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Co-Parenting with a Narcissist Seminar

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Our team of family law attorneys and divorce attorneys look forward to helping you when you need it most. With over two decades of aggressive divorce, child custody, child support, and divorce mediation representation we will not allow you to be taken advantage of. We believe in making a difference in the lives of our clients and their children.


Mesa, AZ – Office

Located in Mesa Arizona, on Val Vista and Baseline Rd. Our Family Law Attorneys and Divorce Lawyers in Mesa AZ have been helping our clients achieve the legal results they are searching for. Our Mesa Law Firm offers Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

Genesis Family Law and Divorce Lawyers in Mesa AZ
2915 E Baseline Rd Suite 115
Gilbert, AZ 85234
(480) 999-2321
https://familylawattorneymesaaz.net/mesa

Chandler, AZ – Office

Located On Dobson Road, just North of W. Chandler Blvd, near the 101 Freeway. We have a team of the Best Divorce Lawyers and Family Law Attorneys in Chandler Arizona. Our Chandler Law Firm offers Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

Genesis Family Law and Divorce Lawyers in Chandler AZ
333 N. Dobson Rd #5
Chandler, AZ 85224
(480) 632-2083
https://familylawattorneymesaaz.net/chandler

Gilbert, AZ – Office

Located in Southeast Gilbert, Near Higley High School on Pecos Road, West of Power Road in the Power Ranch Neighborhood. Our Gilbert Law Firm offers Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

Genesis Family Law and Divorce Lawyers in Gilbert AZ
4365 E. Pecos Rd Suite 138
Gilbert, AZ 85295
(480) 900-2302
https://familylawattorneymesaaz.net/gilbert

Florence, AZ – Office

Located in the Community of Anthem in Florence Arizona, off of Hunt Hwy. Our Florence Law Firm is staffed with family law attorneys that offer Divorce Mediation, Uncontested Divorce, Contested Divorce, Legal Separation, Female Divorce Lawyers, Annulment, Child Support Issues, Child Custody, Military Divorce, Parenting Plans, Prenuptial Agreements, Postnuptial Agreements, Grandparents Rights, Paternity, Order of Protection, Name Change and all Family Law legal issues.

Genesis Family Law and Divorce Lawyers in Florence AZ
3281 N. Hunt Hwy Suite 111
Florence, AZ 85132
(480) 632-1120
https://familylawattorneymesaaz.net/florence